lets find out an idea to which this post can rely on, if not it won't make to this blog....
the famous "broken-heart" content may be... naah, thats borring...... ego shattering cases.... note that one too... regretting on which what we have expected of and what we get.... sounds ridiculous... hmmm, how about the true love shit... ohk, i accept this one's a PJ... anyways, the thing is - ARE these all connected?
what i meant is one gets angry when someone left him/her for some other... this directly means that better than him... may be this is interpreted as an attack on one's individuality... and he ends up in either anger or just pity on his own condition... but hey, in both the conditions, the development doesn't stops... one saying flashed - "everything that doesn't kill you, makes you stronger"
this may be applied here... the animals uses it... its our survival instinct, which says to get rid of this possible danger anyhow(anyhow reefers to anything like prove the other one smaller than you or make yourself better than him)... but to overcome this hunger of getting any better, we fool ourselves with any sort of deactivating mechanism(the easy way!), the other part, which is - to console yourself... or to search for some good words that may help you to digest this very fact... the best thing one can do is to search for approvals and support that makes his delusional frame more stronger and then goes the condition of "yes, im right", "this is it", "thats why it all happened", top of all - "NOT MY FAULT!"... this is the very entry point of our old pal - ego, which further helps in building that delusional site more firmer, more stronger... now the "reasons" comes in the scene... reasons to support that delusion, to have more approvals... any kind of reasons that makes one feel good, which weren't existed previously or even if they were, they would have been on very low priority.
then above all to hide these all erroneous activities came our own master cover - "the true love" in which one wraps up everything that he want to. this works everywhere, after all he found "THE CAUSE"[taunt]...!!! is it so...??? might be, even m not sure... plz help me decide too...
now i had a nice title for above crap:
!!!unmasking the hypocrite!!! - HUMAN MIND